So here we go! The wife and I have started the baby making process! Go ahead and ask it… How do Lesbians have a baby? You all probably have so many questions and it’s okay… SO DO WE!
We want to take you on this baby making journey with us! We already met with the Advance Reproductive specialists — they’re the ones who are pointing us in the right direction. They gave us a list of steps we need to take to prepare my body and to make sure that everything is healthy and good to go!
The first step was bloodwork for the CMV test. See CMV test definition HERE (it’s okay we had no idea what that was either) The reason why this test is important is because we are using a donor. Whatever my test results are… I have to find a donor with the same results! It’s crazy right?! I just kept thinking “geez some people who make babies don’t even know the name of the person they’re in bed with!” …. BUT this is learning process for us and “out of the norm” so we have to follow FDA rules.
The second thing I had to do was go get the Ovarian Reserve bloodwork done and that is where this video picks up…
And that’s where we are today! Unfortunately (or Fortunately) my CMV test came back negative and the donor we had our eyes on was positive so that means we have to look for a new donor! We were a little upset when we found out the results but we realized that everything happens for reason. The perfect donor is out there and we will know it when we find him. Our next appointment is on Wednesday which is the ultrasound and the physical! We will keep you posted on the process! In the meantime PLEASE feel free to ask us any questions <3
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You can check out my coming out story HERE! If you’re thinking about coming out… just know you are not alone!
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